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- September 1, 2006
Never Too Old To Be Young
September 1, 2006Read moreOne reason I’m such a “productivity enthusiast” is that I’m terrified by the idea of not being productive. To me, that means not fulfilling my potential, or making whatever contribution I’m meant to make. I don’t know where the feeling comes from, and it is a little irrational, but it’s how I feel and my practical side says, “Go with it! Just don’t let it become self-destructive.”
On the more positive side, I love the idea of being empowered, and especially by people empowering themselves. Part of the fear behind “not fulfilling my potential” is the sense that I’m running out of time. As I get older, I become increasingly concerned that I have already run out of time, that I’m too old.
But check out these people:
Morjorie Newlin started bodybuilding at 72. She had trouble carrying 50lb bags of kitty litter, and went to a gym to get fit. She’s now 86, and still works out after having won many competitions. She looks amazing, and it’s still even more amazing that she started at such a late age. She apparently has been blessed with good genes, but then again, my Dad also started working out recently, and he does 60 situps and pushups every day! Speaking of Dad…
My Dad is more inspiring to me every day. One day he decided to learn how to play the cello…when he was in his 70s! He bought a cello, then attended a music school in classes with kids far younger than himself. He even performed in the school recital. Incredible! Nothing holds him back, once he’s set his mind to it. Some day I hope to be like him :-)
I met video pioneer David Cort in the New Media Group here in New Hampshire. He’s in his 70s, but still has the energy of a young man tempered by his years of experience as a pioneering video artist and freelance videographer. At first, I was a little surprised that someone of his age would be interested in digital media at all, but I soon came to recognize that his spirit was in the same place. He doesn’t let new technologies faze him, but tackles them head on, constantly re-inventing himself. He’s still at it.
One of the more powerful realizations I had related to age and spirit was during the SXSW06 panel Women’s Visibility on the Web: Who’s Butt Should We Be Kicking?, where I heard the story of Virginia DeBolt for the first time. A self described “little old gray haired lady at SXSW” who was “the most invisible” person there. but she listened and she believed. So as an educator, she was faced with a conundrum: how to convey all this new stuff to teachers, writing about the topics of web development in the way she thought it should be done. It struck me just how easy it was to not see older people, making assumptions about the irrelevancy of their lives to our, uh, “high-tech lifestyle”. While all the bloggers on the panel were awesome in their own way, it was DeBolt who I found really the most inspiring. She was quite aware that she was older, not a high-profile designer and not the most technically savvy, but she had something she wanted to do, and she put herself out there and kept doing what she wanted to do. So awesome.
You can listen to DeBolt and the other panelists on the SXSW podcast site; just search for “Visibility” on the page and you’ll find it.
Getting On With It
All of these people are still doing new things and going into new areas. Age doesn’t stop them. You can still be strong, mentally alert, and willing to learn at any stage of your life. So perhaps, it’s the attitude that one can start at any time, and that’s hugely better than feeling that you’ve somehow “missed the window” or “have started too late”. Getting over the sense of shame or embarassment is one of the steps toward self-empowerment, along with not caring about what other people think. Well, that’s not entirely true; I don’t particularly care about the opinions of people who would rather nay-say, list reasons why something won’t work and stick their asses tight to their chairs. That doesn’t get me anywhere. The opinions of those people who are hungry to do things, though? Those are the people I care about.
Besides, looking at just these four people out of the thousands of ass-kicking older people in the world, I don’t really have an excuse, do I? :-)
- August 31, 2006
How to Build a Different Kind of Freelance Network?
August 31, 2006Read moreThe Freelance Forum described in this post is no longer active. Sorry!
A few of us have chatted about trying to form some kind of freelance or business network with a declared code of conduct and values. Much of this discussion has been occuring, bit by bit, on my private Freelance / Empowerment Forum which is open to anyone who posts a background story / bio about themselves (pseudonyms are OK, but the bio should be genuine.)
One of the best themes to come out of these networking thoughts was from a conversation I had with an architect out in Arkansas:
Rather than “strip mine” other people’s lives for revenue (the traditional cycle), we’re interested in creating more life and more positive energy for the people we’re working with and for ourselves.
And there are other things, in no particular order, that are important to me as a vendor.
- Defining tangible, concrete results.
- Being candid, real, and honest in our expectations right from the get-go.
- Telling you how much something will cost before the work is done.
- Acknowledging send and receipt of critical work and dependencies.
- Understanding your work and the context in which you operate.
- Being willing to learn how to speak your own language (business, art, etc).
- Teaching you how my profession works as necessary or as asked…no secrets!
- Collaborating to deliver tangible results at every stage of the project
- Keeping your best interest as my priority, not maximizing revenue at your expense.
- Taking appropriate protective measures in terms of contracts and limits that are mutually beneficial.
- Looking out for each other’s interests in our day-to-day operation.
- Delivering great product.
- Being a source of good ideas and brainstorming.
- Enjoying the process of communication through regular dialogue.
- Accepting criticism and disagreement, and working with that to bring things back into alignment (any feedback is good :-)
In return, I expect the same kind of conscientiousness in return; I like working with clients who value communication and are good at it. Likewise, I value collaborators with the same set of values.
If you’re a graphic designer, illustrator, or developer…heck, if you are anyone that shares these ideals, I’d love to see your work and get to know who you are. I also invite you to join the freelancer forum…we’re starting to attract a critical mass of like-minded people, and it’s so far been a nice place to hang out and dream.
Of course, there’s a catch…
You have to be willing to talk about yourself and tell me why you’re doing what you’re doing. It’s OK if you’re still trying to figure that out (most of us are, myself included), but that willingness to share is the essence of the kind of freelancer that I like working with. At least, that’s my current working theory.
I’m not sure where this is going to go, but it doesn’t hurt to shoot me an email telling me about what you do with some examples. I like to refer people who I think are good matches for the kind of work they do. If you like, post in the comments are of this folder with a bit about yourself and a link to your portfolio for everyone to look at. Blatantly commercial links will be marked as SPAM. This call is for people who have, or want to develop, their own voice.
I’ll consider this a success if I even get one response…it’s just amazing how much difference even a single contact makes in terms of new ideas and connections!
- August 30, 2006
On Making Decisions
August 30, 2006Read moreI was facing what I thought was a rather complex situation, and asked one of my best friends for an opinion, after laying out all the relevant information and possible outcomes. The response:
You already know what to do! “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” -– Steve Jobs
And, as it turned out, I do.
This reminds me of my favorite 5th grade teacher, Mrs. Nunnalee, who was sailing around the world with her husband; they would stop at various international schools to teach a semester or two to fund the trip. When I was stuck, I would go up to her with my questions, and ask them in much the same way I did earlier this afternoon. Mrs. Nunnalee would smile broadly, wavy auburn hair tossed back, and ask me to repeat my question more slowly back to her. By the time I was done, I realized I did already have the answer, and she would send me on my way.
It’s both heartening and befuddling to think that, in a lot of ways, I’m still the same little kid, and thank goodness that there are people like Mrs. Nunnalee around to help me keep my head on straight with a smile.
- August 29, 2006
Bee Story Rain Delay
August 29, 2006Read moreI’m pretty swamped right now with a deadline, so Bee Story Part III will be delayed. But that doesn’t diminish the joy of rereading part I and part 2, rich they are with metaphor and analogy.
Plus, there’s lots of creative writing going on across the blogosphere today, because it’s STORY TUESDAY!!!! Well it’s a lot if if “two” seems like a big number to you. It’s certainly more than ZERO, so it’s big enough for me :-) Anyway, check out the following:
Senia has posted her Story Tuesday story, The Ant’s Big Idea, which I haven’t read yet but has an intriguing title.
Jason Manheim is running today’s free write challenge of the day, where you get to write a few things that come to mind on the random word of the day, which is…SNAKE. Read more about his free write idea…I think it’s pretty cool.
- August 27, 2006
Roomba Productivity
August 27, 2006Read moreI’m hitting a busy time right now, feeling a bit behind the 8-ball. The number of things going on makes it difficult for me to plan easily, and as a result I’ve let the house slide into a rather unpleasant mess.
An insight:
The difficulty of planning, due to the number of projects with unpredictable elements coupled with my own ad-hoc scheduling, makes me less likely to want to plan. Because it’s all for naught. A waste of time!
Usually I power through this somehow, remembering that starting anywhere and maintaining momentum is enough to dissolve the blockage. This time, it’s a little different, because I have enough things going on that I feel a sense of doom about ever hoping to get everything done in a “reasonable” amount of time. Being able to TRACK everything isn’t particularly reassuring either…again, I’m back to the tyranny of the to-do list staring me in the face.
Time for a new strategy! Impatient readers can just skip to the very end for the summary, which I think is pretty interesting.