SUMMARY: I’m not generally a superstitious man, but I do take notice when I notice a pattern in what catches my attention; I figure it’s the Universe bonking me on the head to get me to think. In this case, I stumbled upon three old blog crushes, powerful voices from the past that were a huge inspiration and even helped set me on my path. After so many years, were these voices calling to me again? What are they saying to me NOW?
Jory Des Jardin and MORE SPACE
First up is Jory Des Jardins, who reposted her essay from MORE SPACE: Nine Antidotes To Complacency In Business. I had started reading Jory’s first blog as I was figuring out what to do after leaving my old company, and not feeling that good about it. Jory’s blog had blown me away with its vulnerable-yet-strong personal voice on transition into consulting. I hadn’t realized until rereading her essay just how much that she had been a model for my own writing aspirations, and how far I have to go.
Heather B. Armstrong closes Dooce
I then stumbled upon the news that Heather B. Armstrong was shutting down Dooce after many, many years of personal blogging. She is one of those legends from when there was a “blogosphere”, the first person to be fired from her job for blogging, with an enormous online following. Though she’s known now as a “mommy blogger”, I had enjoyed the voluminous snarkiness with which she wrote, finding her place in the media landscape by applying her skill in design and writing to portraying herself without apology. Anyway, she is moving on to other endeavors, and her parting post is filled with insights that resonate deeply. Yes, long-form blogging is demanding, and attention spans have shifted toward tweets and links posted on Facebook. However, Armstrong wrote this one line that really hit me:
[…] But eventually I’d like to get back to the reason I started “living online” in the first place: writing for the love of it, writing when the story inside is begging to be told.
I don’t think of myself as being a writer, which is why my personal reaction to the above quote surprised me. While I do feel the compulsion to write, and write a lot when the mood takes me, I’m not sure I really “love” it. It’s just something I do. There is a principle at work: I like the telling of the story through conveying truths and insights, because I believe that putting those thoughts into the world might smack someone in the face at the right time. But does that make me a WRITER? I keep telling myself that I’m a designer, sometimes a developer, and an aspiring maker! I suspect, though, that I am not being entirely honest with myself, or I am not brave enough to be a “real writer” without having first achieved some measure of “real success” through my “more imporant” creative work.
John McWade stops publishing Before & After Magazine; joins Lynda.com
The real shocker of the day was an email newsletter from Before and After Magazine, relaying the news that founder John McWade was joining lynda.com full time, and that the magazine was ceasing the publication of new issues. John McWade is the graphic designer closest to my heart, teaching the foundation of graphic design with immense clarity and humility. He’s also the guy who showed Apple what desktop publishing could do before they even had a handle on it, which you can read about in the early issues of the magazine (available in the totally-worth-it master collection). The very idea that John McWade would give up his own enterprise to join another company was mind boggling. I had been quite happy knowing that he was out there forging his path by the sweat of his own back, but apparently I had misunderstood his true mission: what’s important to him is (if I am reading this right) having the resources and reach to teach graphic design to a larger audience with a company that shares his values (and a 1.5 billion dollar acquisition by LinkedIn doesn’t hurt either).
When I notice a pattern of three that strikes me this hard, this tells me that there is SOMETHING subconscious going on inside me. I’ve been trying to get back into the habit of blogging more for the FUN of it instead of business reasons. At the same time, I’ve been wanting to improve the experience for readers old and new, but without falling into the “trap” of writing for a narrow demographic. This is a horrible conflict between personal desire and business pragmatism, and it also ties strongly to a general lack of excitement I’ve been feeling about creativity and productivity in general. I have been finding it very hard to self-motivate. I think I can distill the feeling into a simple phrase: Why bother? Who cares?
Let me try to express how I’m relating my reactions to my current feelings about blogging and my business-related activities:
From my reaction to Jory Des Jardin’s essay, as fresh-sounding to me as the day I first read it, I feel tremendous empathy and love for the people going through difficult times, and I am still blown-away by the transparency and authenticity that I believe rings through her writing. I feel like she’s showing her personal truths, warts and all, from a position of authenticity. She doesn’t present herself as a teacher or expert, but as a fellow human being who wants to share and connect. That theme of connection has been much on my mind lately, as I’ve sensed a barrier between myself and the rest of humanity. That can’t be healthy.
While I haven’t read her in years, what I really liked about Heather Armstrong is that she wrote about what she found interesting using the long-form blog post that was still eminently readable. I am not so good at that, or maybe it’s more accurate to say that I’ve not written as broadly about what I’ve found FUNNY and INSPIRING for a long time. I swore off “searching for inspiration” in 2010, figuring I knew what I needed to do and concentrated on sticking to that. Five years later, I’m feeling blah and disconnected and uninspired. COINCIDENCE? Maybe not. I need to rethink my balance.
John McWade has been my idol as an authoritative and insightful graphic designer, writing with uncommon clarity and humility. He turned his experience into a business and then a magazine, and now he’s gone to work for someone else. My own aspirations of being “creatively independent” were modeled on his success, but now I have to rethink that. My mission has been to be independent. His mission has been to educate as many people as possible. I’ve been feeling the grind of going it alone for a long time, feeling that this was the best way to ensure independence and the maintenance of standards that are important to me. But I have to admit I haven’t been anywhere as successful as I have wanted, and I think it’s because my mission is too personally scoped. Who can relate to it? It’s no fun at all.
I don’t have a clear takeaway. I might be starting to see how to reconnect my old impulses back with inspirational voices. I had stopped paying attention to inspiration because so much is available on the Internet, and the overload of cool videos and links makes it hard to focus on the slow grind of building a quality body of work. There’s the other kind of inspiration, though: those people that you look up to and admire. I’d forgotten these voices, and as a result I may have lost my sense of direction.
Julia Cameron wrote in the Artist’s Way, that throughout life we keep going round the same circle but each time at a higher level. So imagine a spiral…we keep seeing the same view but on each circle we have greater perspective. So, it’s always a healthy sign to be revisiting our motivations and challenging our own assumptions. I’ve been doing quite a lot of that myself recently and my blog writing voice is something I feel needs some serious attention as being not personal enough. The most important thing though, is to keep trying to forge OUR way not that of someone else, no matter how much others inspire us. After all, the people we admire are only human also and we are only privy to their motivations from a very shallow viewpoint. What if John McWade resigned from Lynda after a year and started another company? How would you feel then? Keep forging your own path Dave and know that you HAVE inspired lots of people for a long time – and continue to do so :)
Art spirals! I like it! Thanks also for reminding me that this is just one point in time, and that the journey continues. In circles. Which I kind of hate at the moment. But this is part of the deal, right, of pursuing one’s own path. It hadn’t occurred to me that this path is likely to cross back on itself many times.